2018; the year on the blog.
31 December 2018 • 2018, blog life, throwback
Hey.
Remember me? No? Yeah, about that…
I’ve
hit a slump with blogging recently; my mind’s been packed with all
sorts in the past few months, and unfortunately some of my passions have kinda… fizzled. I found my creativity was a little low
after a lot of work stuff and general practical adulting started to
take up more of my time – how on earth do most of you bloggers do
it!? I struggled so much, and admire y’all all the more for
balancing full time jobs with your side hustles, wowee – and my
lovely corner of the internet was left dark and deserted.
40.
16 December 2018 • 40, about me, facts, fun facts
My name's Grace.
I love a good face/body scrub, my favourite Christmas song is 'The Happiest Christmas Tree', my aura is apparently lilac, film trivia will always fascinate me, this blog needs a revamp, I really want to be friends with Emma Thompson, I'm bi and demi, it really concerns me that I won't quite hit my Goodreads Reading Challenge this year, I'm keeping my buzzcut for the foreseeable future, I'm a plant eater, I get anxious, most of my wardrobe is blue, I still believe in fate, the family cat gets me like nobody else and knows all my secrets, I've only bought two albums this year, if I don't get a permanent role in the job I'm currently doing there's every chance I'll run away to Australia, and 2019 is going to be exciting.
Those Christmas Hot Takes: a rundown.
13 December 2018 • christmas, Christmas songs, hot takes, Love Actually
It’s that time of year again! Pretty lights are being strung
up over the dreariest streets, jingling bells have been added to the
Pop Master theme tune, shopping centres are becoming Panic Zones, couples are arguing about whose parents they’ll be spending the day with this time round, unsuspecting babies are being dressed up in absurd yet adorable costumes, and folks my age are regretting
offering to host their extended families for the first time.
Yes, it’s a great time of year when all sorts of lovely things
happen and awful traditions are enacted. Another thing that has been
happening for the past few years on social media is people throwing out buzzwords and Hot Takes
that, frankly, we are all sick of hearing. So here, let me give you a
little guide to each of them (in case you missed any, because you
have no access to the internet apparently – in which case, how did
you get here?! Whoa), and debunk things a bit.
'Love,
Actually' is problematic, actually.
Yes,
we’ve all read those Buzzfeed articles and seen the influencer
retweets and basically, YAWN. We get it. This modern classic
Christmas film penned by Richard Curtis with editing done by his wife,
Emma Freud, may actually have been one of the last good eggs in the
seemingly endless era of rom coms – don’t @ me – and while so
many of us hold it so dearly and insist ‘it’s not Christmas until
I’ve seen that scene with the signs on the doorstep’, over the
past few years more and more of us are realising it’s really quite
horrible in some bits.
'The Merry Wives of Windsor', by the RSC; a review.
11 December 2018 • barbican, barbican centre, gracie gets dramatic, review, royal shakespeare company, rsc, the rsc, theatre, theatre review
Last
night I returned to one of my favourite theatres in the city, the
Barbican, to see ‘The Merry Wives of Windsor’ performed by the RSC. Those of you who have been reading this blog for a while will
know how much I love seeing the RSC, and so it should come as no
surprise to you that I really enjoyed this production.
Recent Reads: the 42nd, 43rd and 44th of 2018.
1 December 2018 • bookish, Caitlin Moran, Matt Haig, Maureen Johnson
Well,
I’m still no closer to deciding on a casual reading schedule/To Do
List type thing for 2019, but I have to say my latest reads have been
quite varied, and have rocked. So maybe I’ll just keep it mixed up
for the foreseeable future.
So,
here are some of my last 2018 reads…
Why do gigs suck?
19 November 2018 • gigs, gracie actually has opinions, music, opinion
I
don’t see a whole lot of live music. I mean, obviously I see and review musical shows quite often, but I reckon I
could count the amount of gigs I go to on one hand –
ermm, plus a couple of fingers!?
This
is mostly because there are only a select few artists or bands I’d
want to travel into the city and pay dolla to see, but also because,
well… gigs can suck.
Briefs: Close Encounters - a review.
14 November 2018 • Briefs, Briefs Close Encounters, burlesque, drag, gracie gets dramatic, Spiegeltent, theatre review
I
was lucky enough to see Briefs:
Close Encounters live in London’s Leicester Square
Spiegeltent last Sunday 11th of
November.
Basically,
I read the words ‘drag’ and ‘burlesque’ and I was 100% in.
I just eat plants now.
6 November 2018 • grace is vegan, vegan, veganism, vegetarian
At the beginning of this year, I finally went ‘full vegan’. After an actual lifetime of being vegetarian (no, that doesn’t mean I ate fish)
and 2 years dairy free, I finally took the plunge and gave up what
little animal products remained in my diet in order to transform into
a 100% all-green plant-based 'Vg' Human. (Like the Hulk, but a bit nicer.)
Recent Reads: the 37th, 38th and 39th of 2018.
2 November 2018 • bookish, Charly Cox, Giant Days, non pratt, Sarah Ford, She Must Be Mad
I
have read a mad mix of books, lately. I am definitely still loving
not having to stick to a schedule this year – I’m just trying to
not buckle under the pressure of proofs, now! But I must ask you
readers… should I employ a loose reading routine next year? Maybe a
gentle one, like ‘one non-fic per month’ or something? If you
have any ideas, send ‘em my way via Twitter or in the comments
below, pretty please.
Right,
let’s get into this…
39.
27 October 2018 • about me, facts
My name's Grace.
I
don't ship Rory or Lorelai with any of their respective boyfriends
any more, I am really feeling the moon lately, I think ‘The
Good Place’ is a unique and genius creation, I’m almost finished
catching up on the ‘Gilmore
Guys’ podcast and idk what I’ll do when it’s over,
living in a flat all alone is my dream, a typical shopping spree for
me is going nuts all up in the Ohh
Deer sale, waiting on invoices sucks so hard, developing
inappropriate crushes is my super power, it’s finally whisky
weather again and I am here for it, I only give a tiny percentage of
a sh*t about Halloween but I am really excited for a
‘proper’ Christmas this year.
Only one of my eyebrows currently works, but people assure me they don't notice. I have had 5 major surgeries in 4 years, and I'm just about done.
'Dein Perry's Tap Dogs'; a review.
24 October 2018 • Dein Perry, Drama, From the Box Office, gracie gets dramatic, Tap Dogs, theatre review
Oh hey, my theatre-loving babes! I am BACK!
That’s right, this gal is once again hitting the big smoke’s most fabulous theatres to see some shows and review the sh*t outta them. And we’re starting with a bang – or rather, a series of bangs, taps, slams and snaps – because the other night I was lucky enough to catch ‘Tap Dogs’ just as it landed in the Peacock Theatre!
What I got up to in recovery...
16 October 2018 • joy, joy the store, recovery, the tumour tale
I
was once again blessed with a sweet bit of recovery time recently,
and when I wasn’t asleep or in horrendous pain, I got a lot done
while also relaxing to the max. Here are some of my accomplishments
while I was healing after my reconstruction… and I promise they get better the further you scroll…
(dress and earrings from JOY)
You playin'?
13 October 2018 • cheating, Grace Talks Sex, gracie actually has opinions, opinion, Seann Walsh, Strictly Come Dancing
Funny
story, that’s really not that funny – I actually began writing
this blog post in the summer last year, and have had the document
sitting on my desktop, staring at me accusingly, ever since. The
truth is, the urge that inspired me to write it I couldn’t hang on
to, because it was so toxic and sent me into a horrible spiral.
There
has been a lot of scandal in the news in the past year, to say
the least. In fact, I think the more appropriate term would be ‘a
sh*t ton’. Obviously there have been a great deal of women bravely
speaking out about being wronged by powerful perverted men, hideous
accusations hurled around the House of Commons, and even more pay gap
shockers (seriously, folks. It’s 2018. Whut?). I have felt moved by
all of these things, in good ways and in bad. However, for some
reason, it’s a very silly and much littler thing that’s reignited
my need to write this post…
'Summoning her'; a creative piece.
11 October 2018 • creative piece, creative writing, grace latter copyright
I
saw a tweet doing the rounds recently (lol, I think this is the
twelfth blog post I’ve started with that little phrase) which read
something like: ‘what 5 items would people have to get together in
a circle to summon you?’
I
took no time at all to answer with a < 280 character list, but it
really felt like a creative prompt, much like my beloved ‘642 Things to Write About’ books. So, here’s a little creative piece
to go with it…
'Dear John: The Road to Pelindaba', by Jeff Osment; a mini review and excerpt!
4 October 2018 • bookish, Lush
Here’s
something you may not have known about the mega rad brand Lush…
they publish books!? And if you follow me on socials, I’m sure
you’re aware they frequently host epic Lush book club events in their
Soho HQ, yes? Ughh, I love those evenings. See you at the next one, maybe?
Lush
also have a record label, and are making waves right now with their
new cosmetics range, as well as their new naked packaging projects.
Basically, they’re kicking butt in all kinds of areas. But in this
particular post, I’ll be focusing on their bookish endeavours…
one in particular.
'Dear
John – The Road to Pelindaba' by
Jeff Osment is the incredible tale of Mark Constantine OBE, Co-Founder of Lush, and his long-lost father. Read on to get a glimpse of the amazing story...
The 8 books I will always keep.
1 October 2018 • bookish
I’m
a hoarder. I have realised this for the millionth time today, after
clearing out all the boxes under my bed for the first time in years
(I managed to condense six
down to one!?
Yay me!), and finding all sorts of trinkets and mementos that
really, looking at them now, I needn’t have kept but simply
couldn’t let go…
However,
I will always be particularly ruthless when it comes to my book
collection. I clear out my bookcase regularly, plucking novels and
non fics out of my rainbow that I am sure I won’t re-read, or have
never got round to reading and don’t feel I ever will. I then offer
friends their picks from my piles of old proofs, and have recently
started donating bags of books to my secondary school library (giving
the teachers first dibs, obvs).
There
are books I will always keep, though. If they’re signed by their
authors, exclusive special editions or perhaps even ones I had
something to do with (more on those later)… and if I’ve come
across them at important times in my life. Here are a few of the
books I can never part with…
The BBC Young Writers Award, 2018; an exclusive extract.
24 September 2018
It’s
that wonderful time of year again – the BBC
Young Writers’ Award is upon us!
This
is the fourth year of the wonderful award which invites all 14 – 18
year olds living in the United Kingdom to submit short stories of up
to 1,000 words. The BBC Young Writers’ Award was
launched as part of the tenth anniversary celebrations for
the BBC National Short Story Award and aims to inspire and encourage
the next generation of writers.
The
five shortlisted writers will attend the exclusive BBC Short Story
Awards ceremony on 2nd of October 2018 at Cambridge University, when the
winner will be announced live on BBC Radio 4’s Front Row and they
will have the chance to meet high-profile authors, publishers, agents
and broadcasters at the award ceremony.
And
I’ve been given a lovely job in promoting it, by sharing an
exclusive excerpt of a shortlisted young author’s entry! Below,
you’ll find a brilliant piece of Davina Bacon’s story, ‘Under a
Deep Blue Sky’.
Valuable Things Having an Uneven Face Has Taught Me.
20 September 2018 • disfigured, plastic surgery, post op, surgery, the tumour tale
I
have had a somewhat disfigured face for the past three years; a dent
formed on one side, and an accompanying bulge just underneath it,
after my temporalis muscle moved following my second brain op in
2015.
It’s
over a fortnight since I got my face fixed by a brilliant cosmetic surgeon. In that time, I’ve seen
my face change a little bit every day. Bits of it have gone from
yellow to purple to grey to blue; the enormous swelling has stuck
out, shrunk, and shone. I’ve had two black eyes, an irritated
scalp, and crusty blood in my hair (that I am still washing
out). But I’ve been trying
my best to live with all these things that have come with my
recovery, and I’ve even been out and about a few times since I’ve
got some strength back. I’ve felt quite confident, considering.
And I’ve learned a lot – before this latest operation, and after…
And I’ve learned a lot – before this latest operation, and after…
(dress and earrings from JOY)
(necklace from Stargazy)
Treat your shelf! Perfect gifts and goodies for bookworms.
18 September 2018 • book gifts, bookish, bookworm, Literary Book Gifts
I
realise a lot of my posts have been about books lately… oops.
Sometimes I just can’t stop, okay? My bookwormishness (it’s
totally a word) runs deep and often I can’t keep it under control.
Fortunately for me, I know a lot of you readers and followers are
also book lovers, so you’ll not only humour me when I post reviews,
recs and rambles, you’ll also geek out with me and spur me on!
I
thought that in this post, I’d share some bookish bits and bobs
I’ve come across online and IRL recently that I really feel need to
be shouted about – and maybe even bought – by my
book-loving brethren. Get your wallets out, gang...
Post-grad life - am I doing it right!?
15 September 2018 • degree, grace's life, graduate, jobs, post grad, university of winchester
It’s
coming up for 4 years ago that I graduated from the University of Winchester with a pretty sweet 2:1 in Drama and Creative Writing BA.
It was October 14th 2014 when I got to walk up onstage to
collect my certificate in that beautiful cathedral, then walk out
of the big red doors to crowds
of smiling
friends while a funky band
played. It was gloriously cheesy, and
I really felt the enormity of the achievement, that day – so much
so that I burst into tears several times and
hugged everyone in sight a little too hard.
But…
what have I achieved in these past 4 years? How have I used the
degree that cost me over £10K!?
(I
am so happy I was in the last year group that paid £3,500 per year,
because geezz the interest is a killer 4 years on.)
(jumpsuit and earrings from JOY)
'Race to the Frozen North', by Catherine Johnson; a mini review, giveaway and author interview!
13 September 2018 • Barrington Stoke, bookish, Catherine Johnson
The
fabulous author and real life heroine Catherine Johnson has written a
brilliant book with Barrington Stoke: 'Race to the Frozen North: The Matthew Henson story'. It will be published on the 15th
of September, but here’s a little preview just for you readers…
Publishing
ahead of Black History Month in October, this amazing fictionalised
story of a real life BAME hero is not to be missed.
Matthew
Henson was the first man to reach the North Pole in the early
twentieth century, but his story was suppressed for decades because
of the colour of his skin.
Matthew Henson was simply an ordinary young man. That was, until Commander Robert E. Peary entered his life and offered him a chance at true adventure. Henson would become navigator, craftsman, translator, and right-hand man on multiple treacherous journeys to the North Pole. Defying the odds and the many prejudices that faced him to become a true pioneer, this is his incredible and often untold story.
I
was able to chat with the lovely Catherine (IRL!!) recently
about her latest novel,
and here’s what I found out…
What
is the story of this book? How did it come to be?
I
wrote a non-fiction book for Barrington Stoke maybe… 10 years ago!?
It was about Matthew Henson. [This book] has done very well over the
years, and they wanted to do something different this time. So I
wrote a dramatic, fictionalised retelling of his life! So, although
it’s true, it’s written as a story. It was quite hard, because
he’s a real person – I don’t know exactly what he says, I don’t
know precisely what he did! I’ve joined the dots between things
that I knew had happened.
I
don’t think you’d ever find anyone like Barrington Stoke. Every
writer will say the same thing, every writer wants to work for them!
Because they know what they’re doing, they believe in their books…
and they’re great!
So,
what do we need to know about Matthew Henson before we read this
novella?
He
had an amazing story. It’s like a fairy tale. Over 100 years ago,
he achieved the greatest things, including going to the North Pole…
and it all went unrecognised. There was an issue with the North Pole
expedition; people didn’t believe they could do it, mostly because
they couldn’t believe that Peary, the white man in charge, would
ever have gone [on the expedition] with a black man. The one he
trusted most on that trip was a black guy? Oh no, surely not!
So
they gave Peary a medal but not Henson. Henson then came home and
worked driving cars, sending messages… he worked in his late
fifties as a messenger boy! He did do some lecture tours in the black
colleges, but he wasn’t recognised and never received a medal or
was admitted to the prestigious clubs. When he died, he just had a
regular funeral. It wasn’t until the 1980s when he was celebrated
and recognised by mainstream America – so these days there are
probably a lot of Matthew Henson schools and colleges. He came from
nothing, he was illiterate and he was brought up by his stepmother,
who would beat him. Eventually he ran away at just 11 years old, and
met a sea captain who taught him how to read and write and took him
around the world, and Matthew picked up all kinds of languages – he
saw everything, and that was the making of him. And of course after
that, he was spoiled for regular work.
It’s
an amazing story, because it doesn’t seem real.
Did
you find this book fun to write?
I
am a big, big chicken and would never do any brave things like cross
icy crevasses or pull sledges over snow… I’d rather be at home
with a little heater and an extra pair of socks, writing. I’m quite
happy pretending; that’s what’s fun about being a writer, you
won’t get frostbite or have your toes fall off, you don’t have to
cut open a seal and eat it while it’s warm – you don’t have to
do any of the practical stuff.
What
do you love most about writing, in general?
I
like writing because you don’t have to actually go to work – you
don’t have to put a uniform on or leave your house. These are
advantages and disadvantages; you have to be able to motivate
yourself. I’m really lucky, and I know I am. I wish I could be more
productive; I know some authors who are like machines!
[Writing]
is like falling in love, you can’t help but think about your
pretend world and your pretend people and all the ideas you get. You
go about your daily life, all the while thinking about your world and
your people – like you do when you’re in love. You almost don’t
want it to end – you want to stay there.
In
fiction, especially young fiction, yes your protagonist might have it
hard, but there will always be some kind of hope. In most cases,
there will be some kind of comeuppance for the bad guys – and
sometimes it’s the protagonist engineering it. It’s not like that
in real life! In real life we’re hostages to fortune. But in
fiction, you choose what happens. You can face adversity and come out
stronger. It enables massive positive life change – which in real
life, it doesn’t always. Sometimes, in real life, it’s just sh*t!
So that’s why I like fiction… because it’s better than life.
*
Thank you so much for chatting with me (over a lovely lunch at Bullet Coffee House), gorgeous Catherine.
Wanna keep up with my reading before I post about it on the blog?
Find me on Goodreads!
How To: do Fresher year!
12 September 2018 • advice, first year, Freshers, freshers week, grad life, howto, university
Yes,
yes I know. As a graduate, I’m kind ‘past it’. However, as an
aspiring MA student and a proud holder of an NUS Extra card (thanks
to a loophole), I like to think I’m not too far out of the bubble.
Oh,
I am also about to become a big sis to a Fresher. That’s where this
post started from; the two of us chatting about her buying a specific
fluorescent events wristband for her first week (see tip #2) and me
going off on a tangent, giving out a few of my best tips on uni life, made me realise there was a list that
needed writing on here. Read on to get a few tips on Fresher Year,
from this wise old graduate!
(To
spice this lecture of a blog post up, there will be Fresher year
photos of me throughout. You’re welcome)
(the shelving unit above my desk in halls. I was very proud of it. Plz don't judge my film taste.)
The Body Positivity Revolution, with Chidera Eggerue (@theslumflower) & Michelle Elman (@scarrednotscared) ; a write up.
10 September 2018 • body positivity, book event, bookish, saggyboobsmatter, scarred not scared, The Slumflower, Waterstones, Waterstones TCR, what a time to be alone
I
was so excited to host an event in Waterstones TCR on Thursday 26th
of July, in which I got to ask two extraordinary women questions
about their brilliant books ('Am I Ugly?' and 'What a Time to be Alone'), body positive theses and massive online
movements. The event was very fabulously entitled ‘The Body
Positivity Revolution; with #saggyboobsmatter and #scarrednotscared’.
Me, living a dream, seeing my name on the big events board at Waterstones TCR. Had to get a pic, didn't I?
Despite
knowing it may take me ages to
do afterwards, given how perfectly talkative and inspiring these
women are, I was determined to record the whole event and write it up
for all those of you who were unable to make it on the night
(because, FYI, we sold out. Or as Chidera said: ‘we broke
Waterstones!!’).
So,
I am sitting on my bed as it rains outside, a peeler mask on my face
and my phone beside me with the voice memo open. Here goes…
(photos all taken by gorgeous friends - let me know which is yours if you want credit!?)
Recent Reads: the 33rd and 34th of 2018.
8 September 2018 • be a unicorn, bookish, Lauren Graham, recent reads
I
recently read two very cute lil books, both of which helped me get my
head around this crazy ride of life and get into a positive mindset.
They were written by my queen, Lorelai Gilmore… and a unicorn.
'True Sisters', by Keren David; a review and giveaway!
5 September 2018 • Barrington Stoke, bookish, Keren David, True Sisters
I
recently read ‘True Sisters’, Keren David’s lovely novella
published by the babes at Barrington Stoke. It was a little gritty,
immensely powerful, super sweet and enormously important.
Grace's adventure to Barcelona, 2018.
1 September 2018 • Barcelona, Grace's travels, travel, travel blogger
Before
I caught my flight to Barcelona (literally, I tweeted it from the
airport gate where we passengers all sat for approximately 2.5 hours
waiting for the damn plane to turn up) I asked friends and followers
for suggestions of spots to look up over the 2 days I was there – I wanted vegan
restaurants, good coffee, museums, nice wanders and quirky bars.
I was so happy with the recs I got – the wonderful Stacey @theprettybooks sent me her brilliant Barcelona blog post, Isra @ivebeengilmored shouted out Veggie Garden (and I went there on my last night!) and Lydia @lydiaruffles (the utter babe who I spoke to on here recently) suggested Flax & Kale (where I had my breakfast on my last day!). Everyone seemed to rate Mount Tibidabo and MACBA, too.
It’s safe to say I had a long To Do list. Here are some of the places I managed to get to while I stayed in the city...
I was so happy with the recs I got – the wonderful Stacey @theprettybooks sent me her brilliant Barcelona blog post, Isra @ivebeengilmored shouted out Veggie Garden (and I went there on my last night!) and Lydia @lydiaruffles (the utter babe who I spoke to on here recently) suggested Flax & Kale (where I had my breakfast on my last day!). Everyone seemed to rate Mount Tibidabo and MACBA, too.
It’s safe to say I had a long To Do list. Here are some of the places I managed to get to while I stayed in the city...
38.
30 August 2018 • about me, facts
My name’s Grace.
I love a good Buddha bowl, I'm apparently now an underwear model, I think Joey Tribbiani is a genuinely good guy and his romance with Rachel was kinda nice, my investment in TV shows and their characters borders on worryingly obsessive, bookshops both soothe and excite me, I could eat a whole jar of crunchy peanut butter with a spoon in just one sitting, I'm forever in love with the moon, keeping my skin clear is almost always my #1 concern in life, I'm addicted to Gilmore Guys (only a couple of years late), I'm actually writing a book for reals, I'm considering starting up a Beauty category on this blog, I'll be off to hospital very soon and I'm planning a Recovery Reading List. (comment with any recommendations plz thx)
'To All the Boys I've Loved Before'; a book & film review!
28 August 2018 • book review, bookish, Jenny Han, Netflix, to all the boys I've loved before, YA fiction
I
got this book for my birthday a couple of years ago from my gal
Clare; I’d been so excited to read it but unfortunately that thing
happened when I popped it on my perfectly colour-coordinated shelf, 100% meaning to read it ASAP, and then… time passed, and other books came into
my life. And here we are.
But
of course when I saw the ‘To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before’
trailer appear on my Netflix, and then suddenly cute gifs and quotes
from the film were popping up all over my timelines, I knew I had to
grab it from the bottom of the pile and get on the hype.
(Photos in this post all taken in Cake Room, my regular haunt in Hastings)
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